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A Self-destructive Mentality

Welcome to the: You’re Not Black Enough Blog.

As black folk we have unfortunately come to believe that to “be black” is to live a life of poverty, crime, community blithe and total victim hood. This erroneous thinking has caused us to develop a "crab in the basket" tactic designed to keep progressive blacks from wanting to live up to their full potential – in order to deflect the light from shining on the large portion of black folk that can do, but won't do.

This blog, created by a back female will explore and expose through her eyes, the many ways this very destructive mentality is killing us as a people, and how it adversely affects the entire world in which we live. You probably have grasped by now that the content on this blog will in essence cut to the very core of what is ailing black folk as a people.

In other words it will embarrass some, constructively hurt some, anger most of which they will say: “you’re not better than me”, infuriate others into crying “sell out” and impulse most, to more "white people" finger pointing, yet another group will say "this is really a white persons blog". And we must not forget the notorious Jerry Springer style "you don't know me" group.

For the pseudo degreed among us, meaning those that use, having a degree to try to make others feel inadequate, so they can further delude themselves into believing that they are superior which is the tactic used to hide the fact that they too have low self-esteem.

This group suffers from "mis-educated black hypocrisy" they will address every situation by first asserting their degree-ism. As though one must have a degree to know what they are talking about, and they will always demand to see your credentials, because "unless you have a degree, you couldn't possibly know what you're talking about".

This group is quite convoluted, because they possess the intelligence to make a real difference among our people but because they believe a degree alone is the universal panacea they erroneously believe two things:

First, they can somehow escape the association of the "black plight" through their degree.

Secondly, that they couldn't possibly play a role in the problem, because they have a degree.

Another group will be highly offended because they are nothing like what is posted on this blog. Then I say to you: "join me" in exposing the stench that is killing us. And finally, the smallest group will be those that will rejoice at these postings because they feel the same way.

In the end this blog and it's content will be a catalyst to those that were unable to see what was right before their eyes. This is about healing. And just as when one's broken leg is healing the process itself does not feel good, but I doubt if anyone has ever said, "I don't want the cast put on my broken leg because healing does not feel good".

The quality of our lives as a people is contingent upon us facing these very facts about our condition. So if it causes you to experience anger, embarrassment, sadness or happiness GOOD. Because until we address the hypocrisy and the false sense of victim hood that plagues our communities we will continue to implode.

None-the-less, and without apology this blog will expose the generally unconsidered, fearfully unspoken and totally unadulterated truth.

I would like to add, that the “you’re not black enough” tactic is not just limited to the seriously impoverished. This mentality begins with generational impoverishment, and moves on to those with annual incomes into the millions. For if it were not true, we would not hear so-called black stars (Vivica Fox) saying:

“The racist cop arrested me for drunk driving because I’m black”.

Never considering the far-fetched possibility that she may have actually gotten arrested for drunk driving because she was drunk. So her arrest had nothing to do with being "black", but everything to do with her "irresponsible behavior".

To say that she was arrested because she is black is nothing more than a feigned victim game used as a smoke screen so that she can continue to destroy herself under the guise of racism. When the real issue is the reasons why she needs to be drunk in the first place, and then risk her life and the lives of others doing so, when she has more than enough money to pay a driver. Sounds like a state of self-destruction grounded in pure unhappiness, and the dangerous cry for help.

In the real world, in order to prove beyond all doubt that you were arrested for drunk driving because you are "black". Logic would demand that you would first have to NOT BE DRUNK i.e. GUILTY. It is this type of backward thinking that is killing us as a people, and this blog will courageously call out and put on the square. So as you peruse through, and post comments, keep three things in mind:

1. All Are Welcome

2. The truth may hurt, but it's the only thing that can help

3. Once the consciousness is raised, you can never go back. You can pretend to not know it, but you can never un-know it.

So Hold On, because it's time for a paradigm shift. . .

Sunday, May 25, 2008

Black folk are not mad about slavery

My theory about black folk pretending to be "mad" about slavery is this: the average black person has not read "a" book, chapter or paragraph about slavery, and if their life depended on it they could not tell you when it began, why it began or if it really happened, based on any knowledge they possess in reference to it.

However, since it is used as the number one reason why black folk "cannot" do "anything". It would stand to reason that if one were going to use slavery as the reason why all that ails them, ails them, an intelligent person would at minimum be profoundly astute in the subject matter -- wouldn't you think?

A logical person would be able to match up every condition of their life with the chronology of slavery, in order to prove their case -- that is, if indeed "slavery" is the "game" used as to why everyone else is suppose to do for you, while you do nothing for yourselves. Right?

I surmise that "black folk" don't have a problem with having been enslaved in and of itself, at all -- the problem is that black folk are pissed off because they can't remain slaves. Why?

Because as a slave, you do not have too:

Wake yourself up in the morning
Find and maintain shelter
Supply your own food
Think for yourself
Get a job and keep it
Be educated
Educate yourself
Be responsible for your children
Know or use proper grammar skills

Do you get it? Doesn’t this sound "JUST" like black folks condition?

Black folk are pissed off because they do not want to change from their own mental state of slavery -- and that is where the "gimme, gimme and gimme more" destructive mindset comes from – because you want to stay in the pit of ignorance, because that has become your comfort zone.

And your anger with "white people" is because they won’t be your slave master and provide all of your “amenities”, like they used to do in the “good ole days”.

The other factor is that you want their approval, and you're not getting it, so what do you do? -- Lash out just like a child throwing a tantrum i.e. riots, picketing, and false uprisings* to try to get the attention from your mental slave master that YOU won't let go of.

How is that for a theory? Now I told you to hold on, perhaps you should get some seatbelts for you chair, because I haven't begun to touch the tip of the iceberg of my mind on this subject. It's going to get pretty hot in here -- because I am tired of the madness black people! So if you can't take it, too bad for you.


*Yes they're false uprisings -- how do we know? Because when blacks do it (whatever "it" is) you have nothing to say, it only matters if a "white person" is involved. That's called hypocrisy people, "church" didn't teach you better than that?

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