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A Self-destructive Mentality

Welcome to the: You’re Not Black Enough Blog.

As black folk we have unfortunately come to believe that to “be black” is to live a life of poverty, crime, community blithe and total victim hood. This erroneous thinking has caused us to develop a "crab in the basket" tactic designed to keep progressive blacks from wanting to live up to their full potential – in order to deflect the light from shining on the large portion of black folk that can do, but won't do.

This blog, created by a back female will explore and expose through her eyes, the many ways this very destructive mentality is killing us as a people, and how it adversely affects the entire world in which we live. You probably have grasped by now that the content on this blog will in essence cut to the very core of what is ailing black folk as a people.

In other words it will embarrass some, constructively hurt some, anger most of which they will say: “you’re not better than me”, infuriate others into crying “sell out” and impulse most, to more "white people" finger pointing, yet another group will say "this is really a white persons blog". And we must not forget the notorious Jerry Springer style "you don't know me" group.

For the pseudo degreed among us, meaning those that use, having a degree to try to make others feel inadequate, so they can further delude themselves into believing that they are superior which is the tactic used to hide the fact that they too have low self-esteem.

This group suffers from "mis-educated black hypocrisy" they will address every situation by first asserting their degree-ism. As though one must have a degree to know what they are talking about, and they will always demand to see your credentials, because "unless you have a degree, you couldn't possibly know what you're talking about".

This group is quite convoluted, because they possess the intelligence to make a real difference among our people but because they believe a degree alone is the universal panacea they erroneously believe two things:

First, they can somehow escape the association of the "black plight" through their degree.

Secondly, that they couldn't possibly play a role in the problem, because they have a degree.

Another group will be highly offended because they are nothing like what is posted on this blog. Then I say to you: "join me" in exposing the stench that is killing us. And finally, the smallest group will be those that will rejoice at these postings because they feel the same way.

In the end this blog and it's content will be a catalyst to those that were unable to see what was right before their eyes. This is about healing. And just as when one's broken leg is healing the process itself does not feel good, but I doubt if anyone has ever said, "I don't want the cast put on my broken leg because healing does not feel good".

The quality of our lives as a people is contingent upon us facing these very facts about our condition. So if it causes you to experience anger, embarrassment, sadness or happiness GOOD. Because until we address the hypocrisy and the false sense of victim hood that plagues our communities we will continue to implode.

None-the-less, and without apology this blog will expose the generally unconsidered, fearfully unspoken and totally unadulterated truth.

I would like to add, that the “you’re not black enough” tactic is not just limited to the seriously impoverished. This mentality begins with generational impoverishment, and moves on to those with annual incomes into the millions. For if it were not true, we would not hear so-called black stars (Vivica Fox) saying:

“The racist cop arrested me for drunk driving because I’m black”.

Never considering the far-fetched possibility that she may have actually gotten arrested for drunk driving because she was drunk. So her arrest had nothing to do with being "black", but everything to do with her "irresponsible behavior".

To say that she was arrested because she is black is nothing more than a feigned victim game used as a smoke screen so that she can continue to destroy herself under the guise of racism. When the real issue is the reasons why she needs to be drunk in the first place, and then risk her life and the lives of others doing so, when she has more than enough money to pay a driver. Sounds like a state of self-destruction grounded in pure unhappiness, and the dangerous cry for help.

In the real world, in order to prove beyond all doubt that you were arrested for drunk driving because you are "black". Logic would demand that you would first have to NOT BE DRUNK i.e. GUILTY. It is this type of backward thinking that is killing us as a people, and this blog will courageously call out and put on the square. So as you peruse through, and post comments, keep three things in mind:

1. All Are Welcome

2. The truth may hurt, but it's the only thing that can help

3. Once the consciousness is raised, you can never go back. You can pretend to not know it, but you can never un-know it.

So Hold On, because it's time for a paradigm shift. . .

Saturday, May 24, 2008

The (whore) House of Dereon - turning little girls out




Apparently daddy Knowles (as in Beyonce) has decided that since Beyonce has married a pimp then he probably won't have much control over her anymore, so the next best thing is to turn out all little girls so that they want to look like daddy's first prostitute. The following is my comment made on another blog:

". . . Beyonce just got married; I'm sure in a very short time she will be to emotionally screwed up (being that she's now married to a pimp) to think of ways to make babies look like whores.

Basically she was and is pimped out by her parents (and now her husband) and she clearly doesn't know any better -- because this has been her way of life -- all her life, but she will soon learn.

And mommy, is so caught up in competing with her daughter, by trying to look 24 herself that she clearly is irrational. I would imagine that the guilt of prostituting her daughter messes with her psyche. So in a sick convoluted way if she gets other "innocents" into the look of whoredom then it would somehow mean that what she has done to her own child is normal.

You know the concept; an addict wants to turn you into an addict, a drunk wants you to be drunk too -- otherwise when they look at you, you remind them of what they are doing to themselves.

Besides, Beyonce may have a big ass, but she is not the sharpest tool in the toolbox, and neither is mommy. Basically they have both been pimped out by daddy -- of which no one sees very often, I'm sure it's because he doesn't want it to look like he's the family pimp.

And when Beyonce’s big ass drops she too will be trapped in a holding pattern and spend the rest of her life trying to look 24 years old just like mommy. Unfortunately, in the mean time they will continue to pimp the babies – to ensure that their dynasty continues – just like the cigarette cartel, the drug cartel, the prostitution rings and so forth and so on . . . ."

But in all fairness to the Knowles family, it would stand to reason that if before the launching of the "Bootylicious Kids" campaign you did not have a problem with the very way Beyonce carries herself and you allowed your precious little girl's to watch her shake her naked rump -- then why would you have a problem with it now?

Because you would have to know, that your precious one is going to want to look and act like Beyonce and all the other women that have chosen to prostitute themselves to the industry. Were you telling your daughter that the way Beyonce acts is not acceptable . . . or were you shaking and grinding right along with her?

And as you can see from the above ads, the Knowles family is not prejudiced -- it's all about the equal opportunity to turn everybody’s daughter out. From the Americas to Japan!

And just in case you haven't noticed "The House of Dereon" sounds like the name of a "Whore House".


The verdict: The Knowles family Is Black Enough.





1 comment:

Shaping Youth said...

Yowza. Tell us how you REALLY feel. ;-) Thanks for leaving this post on Shaping Youth as it's 'spot on' as far as I'm concerned, and I look forward to hearing more from you! http://www.shapingyouth.org/blog/?p=1530

Your passionista, raw truths and and existential approach to life echo our own mantra at Shaping Youth...facing down the power-whiners and naysayers who shrug and feel "it's all too much."

(Whatever the 'it' might be: racism, sexism, injustice, media messaging...)

We like to "show & tell" to those that say we're 'fencing windmills' in tackling toxic media messages via solutions-based thinking, especially in our outcomes and measures in counter-marketing.

It's like throwing down the gauntlet when folks say 'you can't'...defiance kicks in to take action with personal responsibility in 'really? just watch us now' conviction.

I loved your 'where do you stand' soliloquy which is worthy of an inspiring post in itself, to get out of lipservice mode & become a proactive agent of change.

Where do I stand? Right beside you. Rock on.

p.s. You'll love Britt's post on 'changebloggers' here: http://tinyurl.com/5maunu